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what if childbirth is just the pain of the 9 periods you missed

and all this time i thought it was the baby ripping through your vagina

so i kinda said a really mean thing to my mum last night
and i spent all night awake bc i knew how terrible it was
and i’ve tried to apologise a thousand times
i know apologising won’t make it any better or take back what i said but i wish she would acknowledge the fact that I know what I said was wrong and that I wish I hadn’t said it.

We have been fighting for the last two hours over this
and each time i try to justify myself she begins to emotionally blackmail me and starts going on about how shit her life is, how she’s a shit parent, how everyone thinks she is pathetic, how she can’t properly provide for her children because she’s “too lazy” to work (when really, her workplace haven’t called her in), etc. She and I both know she has severe depression but she swears that she is beyond help and i just don’t know what the fuck to do or say any more.

I’m getting better in regards to my depression, and it’s really hard to stay on track when my mum is constantly trying to drag me back under. I know that’s so selfish to say but it is the truth. I want to help her and fuck, i’ve been trying to help her, but every time she throws it back in my face and there’s only so many times I am willing to help until I just can’t anymore.

I really need some advice or help or something ://

"Hold your breath mate, you need that to blow up your girlfriend."

Russell Howard.

Insults to use on dudebros.

(via uptoget-loki)
"I always find it more difficult to say the things I mean than the things I don’t."
— W. Somerset Maugham (via feellng)


the fact that women have to fake orgasms so that dudes who dont care about giving them orgasms dont have to feel bad about not giving them orgasms after making no effort to in the first place is ridiculous

a friendly reminder


that calling women of color exotic is

  • fucking racist
  • dehumanizing
  • othering
  • and not a fucking compliment